Sunday, December 16, 2018

Fighting is easy. Peace takes work.


"Watching the guys get the Christmas tree in the rain got me thinking about my boyfriend criteria at age 19 versus at 41. Back then, having a contentious relationship with your family was a relatable thing and a sign that life had dealt you a crappy hand. Now that I’m older, I get that peace and duty and loyalty in family relationships are values that take work, not a sign that you lucked out and had it easy. Having bad relationships doesn’t mean you’re a bad person, but having good relationships is a reflection on your character. Fighting is easy. Living life with the philosophy that things should be harmonious takes work."

Rebecca C.